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Re: A new start (kind of)

It was good. She wanted to go to salsa classes tonight but I am way too tired lol.

Idk where things could go with her yet. But there may be a few signs. It needs to be organic @TAB @Appleblossom

It is what it is I guess

Re: A new start (kind of)

depends what you want @Flying_Hams just go with it maybe or read dating tips or something. Whatever doesnt feel wrong 

Re: A new start (kind of)

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Hi forumites

Just been taking it easy today.

Havent decided if I will g out tonight for a celebratory drink I was invited to for someone.

I am honestly just liking to quiet life and I feel guilty because of it.

I don't like being called old or similar because of it. Idk.

Anyway. I hope you are okay

Re: A new start (kind of)

@Flying_Hams enjoy your day. Take care.

Re: A new start (kind of)

'new you' is part of 'old you' @Flying_Hams  take it easy

Re: A new start (kind of)

Hey @Flying_Hams. Guilty feelings suck but quiet life sounds pretty good to me! I know there's a bit to be said for connecting socially and for spending time with others, but there's also a lot to be said for chilling out and quiet time too I think. Balance maybe (which I suck at 😉).

I hope however you decide to spend your night it feels right and good for you.

Re: A new start (kind of)

Thanks @CheerBear

It's weird. I can't seem to find contentment with it.

Re: A new start (kind of)

Is there anything that does give you that feeling of contentment @Flying_Hams?

If quiet life is something new to you perhaps it might take some time to adjust to.

Re: A new start (kind of)

Yeah. @CheerBear

Maybe it's just I need to adjust hey.

I am finding that work is really taking it out of me. Maybe because it's not what I want to be doing so it drains me.

It may be easier when I am doing something I want to do...

I just really want the Christmas break to refill and recharge and examine what and where to next.

Idk @CheerBear what makes me content. I just don't want problems

Re: A new start (kind of)

It makes sense if work is taking it out of you that you might need some quiet in your life @Flying_Hams. Perhaps you 'need' quiet but don't necessarily 'want' quiet and that's tricky to feel content with, I don't know.

Hearing you with wanting a recharge break!

Gotta fly. 🤞 you find something OK feeling tonight 🙂
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