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04-08-2016 04:33 PM
04-08-2016 04:33 PM
Breaking dissapointment
You know when you're feeling a little precious and then something truly disappointing happens ...? And it's like a thick smog engulfs your brain,,,. What's with that? How do you cope with it? How do you switch over? It's so annoying! Especially cos I can see what's happening- I don't like letting little things dictate my moods... But actually stopping it is another story, Maaan I do feel frustration
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04-08-2016 06:22 PM
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04-08-2016 09:14 PM
04-08-2016 09:14 PM
Re: Breaking dissapointment
Does it need to affect you? Is it really that important? Can you try and ignore it?
I guess it depends on what 'it', is.
If you write it down, will it make sense as to why you have reacted the way you have? Are you reacting the way you are because that is how you were shown to react - is it how your parent/s reacted?
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08-08-2016 09:08 AM
08-08-2016 09:08 AM
Re: Breaking dissapointment
Hi @RG01
I think I know what you mean. Do you think that if you were in a different headspace that this event wouldn't have impacted you so much?
The way I describe it is feeling fragile - and there's nothing wrong with that. Actually, the fact that you are aware something has flattened your mood is really powerful!
How are you travelling now?
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08-08-2016 10:39 AM - edited 08-08-2016 10:43 AM
08-08-2016 10:39 AM - edited 08-08-2016 10:43 AM
Re: Breaking dissapointment
Hi @RG01,
I think that this post was perfect timing for me today. I've had a few really good days for my standards and then this morning it is seeming to did integrate before my eyes. After reading all the posts on this thread I came to the conclusion in that it isn't just the small thing but rather what previously what has happened to lower our guard. Today I started getting wound up because I realised I left my phone charger in hospital and my son had not given me the form he needed for his football photos which creates more work for me. I went to red then just as quickly went to hopeless, quickly feeling the cloud close in. Brain gone, emotions in control 😔 I think if if I'm honest though it was more about lack of sleep and quality of the sleep I'd had and being frustrated that I'd sugar loaded last night and was disappointed in myself for that. I thank you for your post because it's helped me to get some control back, unfortunately brain still foggy and feeling tired but not feeling so heightened (depressed) about the small things. Not sure if this helps you, maybe yours is different.
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08-08-2016 10:57 AM
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08-08-2016 01:12 PM
08-08-2016 01:12 PM
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Trying to be positive and achieve things in life always helps and I think that's a key point- when you have a goal/purpose/responsibility for the day and you're working up that- I think that works wonders with helping to rebuttal the emotional mishmash caused by others
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08-08-2016 01:24 PM
08-08-2016 01:24 PM
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You're more capable and equipped then you know! 🙂
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