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22-03-2023 07:03 PM
22-03-2023 07:03 PM
Surgery Happened
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22-03-2023 11:04 PM
22-03-2023 11:04 PM
Re: Surgery Happened
Hi @ClockFace
I am really glad to hear that you have had the procedure - pain and feeling very tired - that has to be normal.
Possibly after all that has been going on during the last few days having people fuss over you and being the centre of attention would feel very strange for you - you do deserve to have all that happen though - and it must be a relief to have it done - and nothing you know of for 5 months sounds good.
It's best to have some boundaries around your family - for you own mental and physical health - one issue a day is far more than desirable but that is possible the best you can hope for - hearing people's bad days when you have just had an operation is not the best way to come out of sedation - there is no need to feel guilty or bad about yourself - you do have a heavy burden to sort out there.
Sending my best thoughts
Owlunar