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17-08-2018 12:02 AM
17-08-2018 12:02 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
That actually sounds really healthy @Shaz51
1) That he trusts you and shares thoughts etc re his pain.
2) Its a healthy to be able to say "no" to triggering stuff.
3) Yet still at times we need to make "the connects" re what and why things occur. I am sure watching it with a caring partner would have a lot of benefit for him.
Personally I am glad I saw it and it was not too triggering ... though I am a bit triggered in general lately ...
ITS HUGE IT IS GETTING AIR TIME.
I have not seen other shows and will check if it is worth it for me, or if I have already done enough emotional work on those areas.
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17-08-2018 12:52 AM
17-08-2018 12:52 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Shaz51 LoveU! XOXO
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17-08-2018 05:40 PM
17-08-2018 05:40 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Luv u too @Former-Member
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20-08-2018 06:29 PM
20-08-2018 06:29 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Checking in @Shaz51
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20-08-2018 06:40 PM
20-08-2018 06:40 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Hello @Former-Member
My appt has been cancelled until next week now
We did some trimmings for mum today , she is worried about her health tonight and does not want to go back to hospital , fingers crossed xx
My MIL has a very bad back pain , blood tests today and tomorrow
Mr shaz is anxious about work and the lack of work
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20-08-2018 06:55 PM
20-08-2018 06:55 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Shaz51 do you think Mum might have another blockage?
BPii + anxiety = 😬
Would Mr Shaz be amenable to self help strategies to help with his anxiety?
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20-08-2018 07:48 PM
20-08-2018 07:48 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Mum ---- hope not xx @Former-Member
Mr shaz , -- yep bed and staying in bed tomorrow ha ha
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20-08-2018 08:13 PM
20-08-2018 08:13 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
With Mr Shaz in bed perhaps an opportunity for some self care @Shaz51
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21-08-2018 04:38 PM - edited 21-08-2018 04:39 PM
21-08-2018 04:38 PM - edited 21-08-2018 04:39 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @Faith-and-Hope, @outlander, @Former-Member, @Determined, @Margot, @Lunar, @Former-Member, @Owlunar, @Sophia1, @Chamomile, @Lauz
ammmmm why !!! the same things keep coming up , what do you do ?? throw your hands up and say ok lets do it your way
ammmmmm which way is better , ohhhh what to do !!!!
sometimes it is soooo hard , will it be better for mr shaz !!!! ,
amm could be better but then !!!!
I don`t know -- lots of paperwork for me , can mr shaz cope going through the hoops
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21-08-2018 04:49 PM
21-08-2018 04:49 PM