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21-08-2018 05:17 PM
21-08-2018 05:17 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Yikes @Shaz51 what's happening?
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21-08-2018 05:27 PM
21-08-2018 05:27 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
There's so much going on @Shaz51 Not easy to juggle so much at once. Drop back in and let us know how you're going when you feel up to it. Look after yourself 🌻
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21-08-2018 06:07 PM
21-08-2018 06:07 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Hello @Former-Member, @Margot, @outlander
just being talking on sane chatline
The thing is Mr shaz wants to stop work , our business to go on centrelink and our regular jobs
he can not cope with centrelink and changes his mind all the time , I am feeling overwhelmed , and i want to see him / us and my mum happy
mr shaz hates making decisions , and I don`t know weather to go ahead and apply and do all the paperwork and everythng with centrelink
it is soo confusing what to do
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21-08-2018 06:25 PM
21-08-2018 06:25 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
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21-08-2018 06:34 PM
21-08-2018 06:34 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Oh @Shaz51 I do hope you get some clarity as what to do.
Don't you wish it was as simple as getting our loved ones to sign a deed of undertaking that they will cooperate with the process?
Chatline = 😀
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21-08-2018 06:36 PM
21-08-2018 06:36 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
That's really difficult @Shaz51 It's hard to make those big decisions.
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21-08-2018 06:44 PM
21-08-2018 06:44 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Margot and @outlander @Former-Member @Former-Member
You're getting good support @Shaz51 my special friend.....
how about listening to everyone ..... but my suggestion is to be patient and sleep and when ready: write
positive steps on one line and
negative steps on another ??
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21-08-2018 06:46 PM
21-08-2018 06:46 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Wouldn't that be nice @Former-Member
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21-08-2018 06:55 PM
21-08-2018 06:55 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Wouldn't that be nice @Darcy, I agree @Determined xxxx
thank you @PeppiPatty, @Margot, @outlander
sleeping on it sounds good , but i know it will keep coming to a head , just hope it does not end up mr shaz going to hospital again
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22-08-2018 01:39 PM
22-08-2018 01:39 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
hello @Determined, @PeppiPatty, @Margot, @Former-Member, @outlander, @Adge
Thank you my very special friend @PeppiPatty , I did sleep on it which was good and I made 2 lists like you said and then showed Mr Shaz , so at the moment we are going to continue what we are doing until we think it is time to stop and go from there
so no work today , so we did my mum`s gardening and been to the dump , afternoon off now xx
hope everyone is ok ,sending you all hugs